The Gift of a Note to Your Family

Posted on April 27, 2023 by Sytsema Funeral Home | Leave a comment
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Nothing means more to a grieving child, spouse, sister, brother or friend than a personal note from the deceased. It’s something that will be cherished. The note will make its way out of its safe keeping spot whenever the mourner needs to feel close to the person who died. It will be read on those […]

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Dad died. What Do I Do with the Pills?

Posted on April 13, 2023 by Sytsema Funeral Home | Leave a comment
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Prescription medication is expensive. Just that fact can be an understandable motivation for some risky business. When my father died, my mother was asking everyone, “Aren’t you on blood pressure medicine?  You take this heart pill don’t you?  What do you take for depression?” Her plan, no waste. My mom will also save four string beans when dinner is […]

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Mother Died…How Long Do We Keep Her Things?

Posted on March 30, 2023 by Sytsema Funeral Home | Leave a comment
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Separating from a loved one’s belongings is one of the more difficult jobs you will have to do after a death. It is amazing how much is collected over a lifetime. You probably won’t get it done in a day and you will probably shed a few tears. Ask for help. Accepting and asking for […]

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What to Look for When You are Buying Final Expense Insurance

Posted on March 16, 2023 by Sytsema Funeral Home | Leave a comment
Posted under Advance funeral planning / preplanning

Cost is important, but it’s not the whole story. Take a look at the premium, the amount you will pay each month, how long will you pay that amount? It is not uncommon to pay until you are 100 or even older. Will you be able to pay that amount each month as you age? […]

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Death and Taxes

Posted on March 2, 2023 by Sytsema Funeral Home | Leave a comment
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Death and taxes (seemingly unlikely bed fellows at first glance) are often linked together because they have long been considered unavoidable life events. Some even say they are the only two things that are certain in life. Neither is something people typically look forward to, but they are both events that are anticipated and can […]

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